When a marriage is in trouble, a couple has two choices: work to make it better or end the relationship. Most Alabama residents are not quick to pull the plug, and this is okay -- no one should rush into a divorce. However, experts agree that when one particular sign is present in a marriage, it means it is probably time to end things.
So what is this sign? According to a professor at the University of South Beaufort, when there is a sense of resentment and contempt, that is when it is time to think about divorce. No one should dread coming home to one's spouse. No one should stay in a relationship with someone that one feels nothing for but anger. It is not healthy for the couple and -- if applicable -- their children, as these kind of feelings are difficult to hide.
No marriage is perfect. All couples disagree at times. The nature of a couple's love may change over time. Some couples can make it work in the good times and the bad; others, however, cannot. There is no shame in admitting a relationship has run its course.
Alabama residents who are considering divorce can learn more about the process and get an idea of what they may walk away from their marriages with by talking to an experienced family law attorney. Depending on where a relationship is at, the divorce process may be a long, drawn-out, messy affair or it could be completed fairly smoothly and in a timely manner. It is different for each couple. Legal counsel will help one get through it, working to achieve a fair settlement agreement, as quickly as possible.